Will my child learn anything, or just play?
Yes, if a teacher is in the play and letters get a few focused minutes in a small group every day. What to expect, and how to tell on a visit.
Written by the So Loved Academy team · September 10, 2026 · updated September 17, 2026

Yes, if a teacher is in the play and letters get a few focused minutes in a small group every day. Those two things separate a preschool that teaches from one that just looks busy, and you can check both on a visit.
What a four-year-old is expected to know
Maryland's prekindergarten standards ask a four-year-old to name some letters, hear a rhyme, catch the first sound in a word, recognize their own name, and count to twenty, all with help. Most children learn to read at six or seven. Those pieces make it easier.
Two jobs, and a good program does both
Reading aloud builds language: words, sentences, and the habit of asking what happens next. Letters and their sounds need different work: short, direct practice. The National Early Literacy Panel found that one doesn't replace the other. So look for both in the day.
Why play with a teacher in it works
A 2022 review of seventeen studies, nearly four thousand children, compared guided play, where a teacher sets a goal and follows the child inside it, with direct teaching. Guided play did better on early math and shapes, and just as well on early reading.
Warmth matters too. In a trial in thirty-five Head Start classrooms, teachers trained to run calmer, warmer rooms, with the same lessons, saw children gain more in words, letters and math. Children try harder things with an adult they trust.
Why small groups matter
In a room of twenty where one child answers at a time, most children spend the lesson waiting. In a group of five, every child answers, many times. Good programs split the room: a teacher works with a few children while the rest play, then they swap.
How to tell on a visit
- Ask what the teacher was trying to do in one corner this morning. A real answer is quick and specific.
- Ask when letters are taught, and in how big a group.
- Ask how they track progress, and how they show you.
- Look for adults sitting inside the play, not standing at the edge.
- Ask what comes home each day.
The local picture
In 2023–24, half of Frederick County's kindergarteners arrived ready on the state's assessment, a little above Maryland overall. The assessment covers language, letters, counting, and getting along with others. Play with a teacher in it builds all of that.
Sources: the National Early Literacy Panel report, Developing Early Literacy, 2008; Skene and colleagues, 2022, in Child Development; Raver and colleagues, 2011, in Child Development; the Maryland State Department of Education's Readiness Matters report for 2023–24. Rules change. The Maryland State Department of Education's Office of Child Care has the current ones.